When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom. Proverbs 11:2
Humility does not equal humiliation. Disgrace and humiliation actually go hand-in-hand with pride, which is the opposite of humility.
Consider the proud priests of Baal who argued with the prophet Elijah over who the true God was (See 1 Kings 18). What could be more proud than calling yourself a prophet for a god who is no God at all?
And what did the proud priests do to try and prove their god? They cut themselves in a frantic attempt to get his attention. And yet Baal did nothing. They were disgraced and humiliated.
The interesting thing is that they weren’t just humiliated because they took a risk and failed, like some brave entrepreneur that starts a business. Their humiliation happened because, in their pride, they thought that what would bring them disgrace would actually bring them honor. They thought that mutilating their bodies would actually work.
That is what pride does. It makes us do things that are horrible, disastrous, and dangerous, because we believe we are greater than we actually are. Those priests believed something about themselves that was not true. Namely, they had the power to call forth a god.
What is the opposite of pride, then, which involves believing falsehoods about ones own importance, greatness, and power?
That would be humility, which essentially is believing the truth about yourself and acting in that belief. This is why the proverb says humility brings wisdom. Wisdom is a relative of truth. When you believe what is true about the world and about yourself, you find wisdom.