If you have been foolish, exalting yourself, or if you have been devising evil, put your hand on your mouth. For pressing milk produces curds, pressing the nose produces blood, and pressing anger produces strife. Proverbs 30:32-33
It is foolish to exalt oneself. Don’t listen to the lies of our age that say it is wise to exalt yourself. To puff out your chest, to brag about your achievements, to show off. How easily we slip into the trap of boasting, trying to lift ourselves up in the eyes of others.
Going hand in hand with self-exaltation is devising evil. This is not the sin done in a flash of emotion in the moment. It is the cold, calculating intent of the evil doer. The one who lives in a constant state of doing evil because that is his way of life. If we exalt ourselves, we are similar to that kind of person.
How can that be? Surely a little bragging is different than a serial bank robber (for example)?
They are similar in two connected ways according to this verse.
First, they are similar in how they are perceived by other people. The writer says that these two behaviors are like the pressing of milk to get curds, or the pressing of a nose to get blood. They press, agitate, and stir up the anger of other people.
If you go around exalting yourself, people get angry. Similarly, if you spend your days planning evil, people will get angry.
The second similarity is that these two behaviors both cause a similar response from others – “strife.” It’s simple if you think about it. If you stir up the anger of others, the response you will get is backlash, drama, gossip, retaliation, and pain.
That’s it. Nothing good will happen.
So, what is the solution? Easy – shut up! He says, “Put your hand on your mouth.” Stop talking. Hide. Draw no attention to yourself. Shut up and shut up fast.